2019’s Best Dating Tips for Introverted Guys — Discover my 8 tips for attracting and seducing the girls you REALLY want.
In this video, I’ll reveal 8 dating tips for introverts that will help you attract and seduce more girls without being tryhard or insincere.
I grew up shy and introverted and struggled to talk to girls all the way through college.
But when I stumbled upon the dating advice for men community back in 2007, it gave me hope that I could get better at dating.
I have over 11 years of introverted dating experience, and in this video I’m going to share some of my best advice.
By the end of this video, you’ll have a better understanding of how to date if you’re an introvert.
So let’s start with tip #1 which is to own your introverted nature.
For a long time, I hated that I was reserved and quiet.
I wanted to be extroverted instead.
But here’s the good news:
If you’re wondering “do girls like introverts”… the answer is YES. I know because I am one.
Plus, you can develop extroverted characteristics and grow them over time with practice.
As a kid, I hated talking to strangers, public speaking, and public parties.
I didn’t want to hang out with anyone who wasn’t my closest friends because I wasn’t comfortable being around strangers.
But as you lean into your fears, you become more and more comfortable with them.
Do you have to become an extrovert?
No, but it will help you build confidence and grow as a leader and attractive man, so I recommend tapping into your extroverted side.
For my tips on how to not be shy around girls, check out this video:
The second tip is to master your sub-communications.
Sub-communication is the conversation that’s going on “beneath the surface.”
For example, when you say “hi” to a girl, you can say it very timidly, while looking down at the ground. That sub-communicates that you’re nervous and that you’re not comfortable around women.
On the other hand, you can say “hi” with a cheeky smile and seductive eye-contact, and it sends a completely different message to the girl even though you said the same thing.
So master your sub-communication by mastering your non-verbal communication.
This includes eye-contact, body language, and vocal tonality.
This allows you to say less, but still exude attractive qualities that get women curious about you, and even attracted to you.
Another tip is to find a structure that works for you.
Many introverts are smart and like structure or formulas that make logical sense.
I’m not advocating to script everything out that you want to say, but it does help to have a simple structure that you can follow in the beginning to help you learn.
Think of it like training wheels when riding a bike.
Once it becomes second-nature to you, you won’t have to thin about it because you will have internalized it.
That is called unconscious competence.
If you want to hear the rest of the tips, listen to the video.
These tips will help you to meet, attract, and date more women.
Heck, they will even help you get a girlfriend if that’s your goal.
But to get results, you have to get out there and practice! practice! practice!
If you have a question, drop it in the comments below.