DATING ADVICE: Why no second date? (DATING ADVICE FOR GUYS)
You go on what you thought was a great first date, but she won’t go out with you again. Why so?
There are many factors that come into play for a girl when determining if she wants to continue seeing a guy or not. Some of these things are inexplainable, but some are pretty common. What you have to keep in mind is sometimes two people could be great in a “fantasy” setting (i.e., romantic restaurant, fun sporting event), but not compatible in the real world (i.e., cooking dinner every night, dealing with finances). The fact is, we don’t live in a purely fantasy world, but we’re able to create these fantasy environments when it comes to dating. That is not representative of the real world. Your true partner in this world is someone who is great for you in the real world, and even better in the fantasy world. You don’t marry your fantasy, you marry your reality.
Ask your dating questions at: www.Singlefied.com or tweet @SinglefiedYue. Yue Xu, aka Miss Singlefied, is an established dating coach for men from NYC, LA and Beijing. She is the founder and advocate of the SoberFirstKiss movement. #soberfirstkiss
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