Dating tips —
There’s one thing that ruins budding relationships unlike anything else and today I’m going to tell some of my stories but the truth is this can happen to men, this can happen to women, to gay people, straight people — it can happen to you and that thing is neediness. On the extreme side, it’s the person who on the first date starts talking about how they want to marry you and what they’re going to name their kids. But maybe you’ve experienced the lighter side which is you sent a text to someone you like and then rather than moving on with your day, you find yourself checking, you’re checking, and wonder why they haven’t gotten back. Whether it’s big or small, neediness can ruin relationships and that’s why I want to talk about three of the most common instances that you might be experiencing and how to deal with them because quite frankly, this is the one that ruins the relationships that you want the most. So the first thing and one that I have personal experience with is in contacting the person every single day and I will never forget how I learned this — this was scarred into me. Way back in undergraduate, I was in my second year and a friend of mine connected me with a girl girl that I wound up liking and the story behind it was that this girl actually had a crush on me so when we were put together I was like, “Oh my god, this is gonna be great.” Hungout on Thursday night, had a lot of fun, and by the end of the night, I was smitten. So I invited her out Friday and said, “Do you want to come to this place?” She was very enthusiastic, she said, “Yeah, let’s do it,” and then whatever. Her plans fell through — we didn’t wind up meeting up. So I said, “Okay, she likes me. I’m gonna invite her out again Saturday.” So it’s Saturday, I said, “Hey let’s go out,” and she said, “Okay let me let you know maybe we can do it,” and she never got back to me that night. So I’m thinking, “Okay she definitely likes me,” so what I did is I’ve invited her out on Sunday.
Dating tips —
Oh Dating may seem impossible at times especially if you’re not used to putting yourself out there It’s scary when you have to worry about putting your heart on the line Not only that but it’s a lot of hard work and time investment You’ve discovered that even though you’re actively dating you’re still on the search for a meaningful connection with someone Here are five ways to find true love if you’re an introvert and hate dating One go to events and places that reflect your favorite hobbies and interests Forget hitting the bar or club to meet people if that’s not where you feel like you can be your natural self Meeting new people that you can potentially get to know over time requires a certain sense of self confidence By going to events and places that Harbor your hobbies and interests It’ll be easier for you to strike up conversations based on similarities alleviating some of the stress introverts face when it comes to small talk To be prepared to go through trial-and-error Love is in a fairy tale and while you may hate the superficial Aspects of dating you certainly can’t go through it without getting your heart broken a few times or breaking someone else’s There’s always a lesson to be learned in the world of dating for instance you might be used to Internalizing your thoughts and feelings as an introvert But while dating you’ll learn to get better at communicating with your partner and even though that might be difficult at times it isn’t impossible 3 have honest conversations Don’t be afraid to show who you are right from the beginning as An introvert you value authenticity and depth anyway if you want to skip out on trying to impress others be honest Have the difficult Conversations ask them if they know where the both of you are headed see