In this video advice columnist Deborrah Cooper critically reviews a video which instructs men to make women give up everything to be in a relationship with them as the Disciples did when they followed Jesus. The speaker also advocated men demand that women follow strict rules and guidelines from the first day, and that women who break said rules be punished with cold indifference.
Ladies, what you must know is that these are the plans of very insecure, very threatened, and very narcissistic men. Narcissists believe they must have power over your thoughts, heart, mind, body and soul to the point they are so important to you, they become your everything. Only then do they feel secure and validated. Don’t let him get his hooks into you that way!
The best way to get back at a narcissist is to use their punishment against them! There is nothing a narcissist hates more than being ignored. He is depending on you to feel sad, mope around, beg for his attention. Instead, ignore him completely with no energy, no response to his antics, and a determination to be the woman YOU want to be – whether he likes it or not.
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