To find a compatible mate, have serious conversations about marriage, children, where to live and schooling early on in the dating process. Avoid falling in love with someone who will not be compatible in the long run with advice from a professional dating coach in this free video on dating advice for men.
Hi, this is Jessica Claire with New York Dating Coach in New York City. In this clip, we’re going to talk about finding a compatible mate. Unfortunately, this includes having some pretty serious conversations right off the bat. You go through the courting process, the flirtation process, and once you get to dating, maybe it’s time to sit down and talk about issues that are going to be a big deal later on. For example, if you’re going to have children, if you plan on getting married, where you plan on living when you get a little older, what your job or your schooling is going to entail and the time it’s going to take you before you’re ready to settle down for sure. Talking about these things early on will give you sort of a sense of whether or not you’re compatible. There is nothing worse than falling in love with someone, realizing much later on that it’s just not going to work because of compatibility. So always make sure these things are discussed. Once you decide you’re compatible, then perhaps you can move on, having a more serious or fulfilling relationship. This is Jessica Claire with New York Dating Coach. This video from This video from