The Best Dating Advice You Will Ever Have
Dating can be a tricky business and sometimes hard. They require a lot of focus, work, dedication and patience. You have many questions you need answers to: What to wear? Where you should meet? What you should say and how much you should say? With these many questions and so much uncertainty, you begin to seek advice on what you should and shouldn’t do.
You probably have gotten one or two dating advice, if you haven’t, here are six dating advice you will ever have:
First impressions are really important.
You must have often heard the phrase “first impressions matter,” – and it truly matters. Your ripped jeans and tees may be lucky, this will be the first impression our date gets of you. You should always try to make a great first impression. This doesn’t mean you need to wear a tuxedo, but getting a shave, having a shower and putting on something good will help impress your date and get you off to a good start.
2. You are responsible for your own happiness
It’s never your partner’s job to make you happy, rather it’s your job. It’s very easy to feel good when your partner does things you like, but needing them to be a certain way in order for you to feel good is bondage. You are responsible for your own happiness and your partner is responsible for theirs. If you’re looking for someone to complete you and vice versa, you will be looking for a very long time, and in the wrong direction.
3. Love yourself
The best love you will ever get is the love you give yourself. You can never love anyone more than your willingness to love yourself. You have to apply your love to yourself before applying it to another person.
4. Avoid the ex conversation
Try as much as you can to avoid talking about your ex, because it’s dangerous territory. I can assure you that your date or partner will not be interested in such conversation. Adding to that, you’ll make things really awkward.
5. There is no perfect person waiting for you
You probably have an idea of your ideal and perfect mate. It’s important to have an idea or what you would want in a partner, but it’s also important to not become so attached to an idea
of a dream partner. You may end up driving way people ho could have been good for you.
6. Be honest with yourself
You should be completely honest about who you are, what you like, and what you don’t like. If you have to be someone else just because you want to be with someone, then they should be with someone else and not you. If you are lonely, get a hobby or you could still focus on self development, rather than date.
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