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Hey guys, it’s Emyli and you’re watching EmLovzTV, the place to be if you’re looking to meet and attract the perfect partner.
Today marks part 2 of our 4 part “Should I Sleep With Him?” series.
In the last episode, you learned how to not go all stage-5 clinger on Mr. Right.
And in this episode, you’re going to learn about The EmLovz Rules of Sex–and get a fun new worksheet to help you make smarter choices.
Why is this important? Because if you know the rules of the game, then you won’t blow it with Mr. Right.
Step #2: The Rules of Sex
If you’re gonna sleep with a guy on the first date, make super certain that he’s not “the one.”
How? Make your Mr. Right Checklist.
For starters, download your own free checklist on EmLovz.com right now by clicking the link below. So click on the link below which takes you to my website, then download the worksheet, open it up, and resume this video.
Go do..I’ll wait here…
Next, list the top 20 must-have qualities that you’re looking for in Mr. Right — try to balance out the physical qualities with the mental qualities.
Now, next to each quality on your list, write 3 characteristics that are easy to spot in a person who has these qualities. To illustrate this concept I want you to think differently.
You know how people talk about “red flags” when they see a characteristic that indicates a negative trait?
Well this is the opposite of a red flag–this is a white flag–this is an iceberg–this is like a friggin’ iceberg of rainbows and ponies–it’s a sign that there could be some super amazing stuff under the surface.
This is like the first time you try mochi ice cream and you don’t know how it’s gonna be but that first bite just gets ya hooked and then you gotta have it all. It’s like that. This is an indication that this guy might be Mr. Right. nice:)
And WE DON’T BANG MR. RIGHT on the first date ladies.
No We Do Not.
Ok, back to the Mr. Right List. I’m gonna give you an example.
So when I was single, one of my Must-Haves was a partner who was “street smart.”
Now, when I think of “street smart” it looks to me like a person who is social, who doesn’t conform to the “norm” just to please people, and who’s confident–both in their speech and in their body language.
So then I take that information and I put that in line 1 of my Mr. Right List…
Now, if any of the men you date have even one of the mental characteristics on your list, then you should NOT sleep with him until date #3.
It’s ok to sleep with a guy on the first date if–and only if–you are not interested in having a relationship with him…
Why? Because you can’t take it back.
If you tend to get attached after having sex with a guy, then you probably shouldn’t have sex right away–with anyone.
On the flip side, if you can compartmentalize sex and emotion into separate spaces, then you are good to sleep with the guys you don’t want a relationship with.
For this, we move on to Bachelor Scoring, which is a topic we’ll discuss more in our next episode. So stay tuned.
And now you know a little more about the rules that govern sex.
For more great tips to help you attract the perfect partner, download my free women’s guide to fun, sexy dating at EmLovz.com.